Tom Foolery!

This has been bothering me for just a lil while, the whole charades thing. What do you mean? Not recently, but not too far back either, I've been running into phonies and frauds. Tops that talk a slick game, bottoms wit tha bubble booty, and the vers all day dudes need to have their reality checked. I mean seriously! I'm a huge fan of liking what you like, being sexually explorative and all that good stuff, but here's the problem. How you gonna boast ya game and then meet up and change the script? That's not cool...

Okay, I think I have a great ass. It feels nice when I grab it. I've been told that it taste good. I've heard that it conforms around dicks. It's tight. It gets the job done very efficiently! I'm not cocky, because these are things that I've been told on multiple occasions. On to the dick! It's not the longest dick, but it's more than average size. I can wrap both my hands around it and there's still some dick left over, so you get an idea! It's not the thickest dick, but is visually appealing. Speaking from experience, I will say that it tastes good! Wondering if you caught that! It slides easily down your throat and fits comfortably in your ass. Again, things that I've been told. Why am I saying all of this?

I've had encounters with tops. These same strict tops, more than one, spoke this slick game like, "I'ma tear that ass up", "I'm gonna eat it up and stick my dick in", and the frequently heard "I'm gonna make you bust like you never busted before"! When we meet and our clothes decide to leap off our bodies, why are so fascinated with my dick? You suckin dick like you're certified and got degrees and credentials! The next thing I know, I'm passing the condom over and they roll it down on my dick! Hmmm, I thought these were tops! I done got all tuned up for some dick and now I got the booty. Ain't gonna lie, tight virgin ass is a wonderful thing, but I wanted your dick!

The same goes for the bottoms! I have never seen a declared power bottom get hot and bothered over booty. This one particular bottom sucks my dick on command. meaning if I call him he's over in 30 mins, lol. I wear baggy clothes the majority of the time and I just stand there or lay there while he hides my dick in his throat. He's been begging for me to fuck him, constantly. I'm just interested in his mouth and him making me bust. I'm a dude! What do you want from me? There was one time when I had Basketball shorts on when I answered the door. He made a comment, "wow that's a nice ass!" He followed with, "Does it taste as good as your dick?" I told him yea and whipped the dick out and let him suck on it. I'm sittin down on the futon, slightly reclined. His hands begin to travel to the booty and he's rubbin on the hole. Sidebar, I love that! Then he starts lickin my balls and eventually makes his way to my ass after he slid my shorts completely off. He said my ass tastes sweet. Then he asked me if he could try it out. I declined. He now begs me for the ass instead of my dick. I grow tired of this runaround.

I don't have much problems with vers guys. if you gonna be vers, be vers! Don't pick one and be satisfied. When you're done fuckin me, roll over and toot that, cause it's my turn! The same goes for the flip. Don't lemme push too many nuts outta you that your dick wont be hard enough for me to enjoy it. A versatile's job is to give and take, and I expect you to be able to do that!

This Tom Foolery needs to end! Why oh why does it seem like this stuff only happens to me?

Just Keep Wondering...

Cheaters Are Held Contempt Of Court

I believe that everyone can circle around the idea that cheating is bad and immoral. That's not up for debate here. However, is the umbrella of cheating big or small? What IS included in cheating? What's not included in cheating?

Some might say that cheating is only placing one's sexual organs on/in another person. You know just the acts of mutual masturbation with each other sexual intercourse. Very plain and very simply put.

Let's say you are lying in the bed with another and you strip naked. You have not engaged in touch but you are able to see each other in entirety. You begin to pleasure yourself in front of them. Is that grounds for cheating? The line is right there but it is so very very gray!

We've all watched some shape or from of pornography, whether it is soft porn or hardcore porn. Some become slaves to the porn and take sexual attention away from their mate and redirect it to the screen. Watching someone on web-cam would be the same! Seeing someone on screen perform sexual acts would be just as bad! With that same line of thinking, would being on a web-cam be considered cheating? You feed off of someone's sexual energy but they can be miles or hundreds/thousands of miles away! Remembering there was no physical contact, does the impersonal relationship distance make it ok?

There are those people that believe that any form of contact, whether it is cyber, mental, physical, optical or sexual, is cheating. Don't look at her! What are you doing on that computer? Who are you thinking about? Don't hold his hand like that! You slept with him (interpret both sexual and innocent)? She's only my girlfriend from back from sorority days, what's the big deal?

One person's views may be different than another's. Can we say conflict when a situation occurs? You say cheat when I plead innocent! None may be necessarily wrong, but what exactly is right? What is wrong? I'm so confused...

What happens after the act? Does a single act of cheating mark an upcoming ongoing habit? Can a relationship SUCCESSFULLY recover from this?

YOU BE THE JUDGE!

Father Time, to the Witness Stand!

It was brought to my attention that the subjects that i intend to touch on are very touchy for one in a relationship to speak on. I pose these questions hypothetically to generate conversation. I want to open eyes to what relationships are in their entirety. This is my purpose, and enjoy!

Father Time has been called to the stand. Age what a number! It can help and hurt in different ways depending on the couple involved. It is said that age brings experience, which begats wisdom. This tends to be the case but is not necessarily true. Invertly, you may be young and have more experience and wisdom than a older person.

If the two are compatible and seem to be attracted to each other, will an age difference be an issue? If there isn't an issue, will it become an issue with time? Does it interfere with your sex lives? What about your social lives?

My man and I have a 5 year difference. we compliment and polish each other in different ways. I think there is a balance and we learn from each other. My parents had a age difference of 10 with my father being older. I believe my mother had the upper hand and held more wisdom and humbleness. (they were married over 30 years) I know a couple where there is a 21 year difference, and I honestly don't know who is more mature! (this couple has issues and are about to be together for about a year)

Would you date someone your age? Younger? Older? Why? Why not? Does it matter? Its your turn to speak!