April 22, 2007

A Tale of a Ring

Usually when there is mention of a ring, there is some sort of happiness associated with it. Some sort of joy that accompanies it, but no! Not in my case! Let me break it down to you...
In June, of the year 2003, I graduated high school. I didn't have much money then because I was basically supporting myself on a job that I had just gotten to finance my first car. Gas, maintenance, insurance etc... Long story short I only had enough money for the cap and gown needed for graduation. I didn't see a class ring or even a yearbook till the next summer. I was torn but I got the last copy of the yearbook and my mother gave me money, a portion that her mother, my grandmother, left when she died, to purchase my high school ring. I whined and whined because I didn't have one, so she gave me the money to purchase one. YaY!!!

:: Fast Forward::

On this past Sunday, I was getting ready for church and got in the shower. I left my ring in the shower and didn't put it back on because my finger was irritated and I wanted my finger to get some air. Moving on, I come home from a nice day at church (blessing in itself) and to my surprise, my ring is not in the shower. I'm like OK someone moved it. My cousin and aunt were at my house while my father and I were at church. That makes two possibilities. It was really three possibilities because my father used the restroom before I had a chance to get the ring out of the shower. It is officially missing... My ring that cost my mother $500 is missing! In my own house with my own family! I don't understand!

Part of me wants to say HELL NO. Part of me wants to leave it alone.
ALL OF ME WANTS MY RING TO COME HOME!!!
I've called the police and went as far as i could go with that avenue. I told my brother and sister in an effort to calm down and it worked. They told me something, this ring will be the division of this family. I was like huh? He said that He knows how I am and explained that I'm not too far off from him and how he behaves. I agreed lol. He said that there will be ill feelings toward one another, mistrust, and even hatred can come from this. "The family that mom fought so very hard to keep together will fall apart because of something she bought!" I gasped and the only thing I could say is WoW!

April 09, 2007

I Walked Into An Excited Church!

OK some of you know that I belong to The Church Of God In Christ, and probably more don't know. But this past weekend I went out of town to Nottingham Maryland to visit my brother. I haven't seen him since November or December! I really wanted to see him, He is the closest family member that I have and I want us to stay close.

::fast forward::

On Sunday, I attended my brothers new church in Baltimore, MD. I heard a usual sound from the outside of the church after I got out of my car. (BTW Pics are coming of the car along with some other pics, hehehe!) Moving on... I heard singing and the closer I walked to the building I felt vibrations. I chalked this up to they are having devotion and the speakers are very loud and possible some foot stomping mixed with some base. I opened the door and I'm telling you I was wrong! I saw almost everyone standing on their feet clapping, singing and praising God and joining into the service. Isn't that what church is supposed to be like? I guess it should but it is not always the case. Let me explain...

Here's the rundown of my church:

Prayer
Processional of Choir
Choir Selection
Offering (sometimes a sermon on how people don't give enough)
Announcements
Pastors Briefing (I call this the discipline part of service)
Tithing (Another sermon on why you should tithe)
Acknowledgement of visitors (wonder why this part is most times skipped or nobody stands!)
Choir selection
Call to discipleship (An attempt to deliver people from whatever or a time for the blue moon visitor to join)
Benediction (Time to bounce)

Not alot to some maybe alot to others... but here is the thing, THERE IS PROCEDURE! There is a plan of worship. Does anyone see anything wrong with this? I understand a program and its function but i believe that the order of service should be led with the spirit that's in the atmosphere! I think this is the reason why I am bored with my church. As I sat in my brothers church, there was spontaneity, happiness, joy and everyone rejoiced (not just saying amen with a hand clap) but they truly jumped to their feet and showed thankfulness for somebody else's blessing! I am being astonished. I was there for almost 3 hours and didn't know it. Those were 3 hours of a praise and worship, offering, testimony, sermon, prayer line, remarks and acknowledgements, and benediction. I sit in my church 20 min i am ready to go, lol!

::exhale::
I am going to attempt to seek a new way to look for a new church home. Maybe something smaller than my church. A family church per say. I don't know I hope I find it soon. I'm becoming impatient...