I don't understand why I was bored at 1:30am on a night before church! I really should have been sleeping! I wasn't so I was up on the phone talking. There were numbers dialed, and calls sent home. There were many conversations, all of which ended in about five minutes each. Except for one...
We have been talking for about two weeks now and it has been nothing but conversation! I was surprised finally! Maybe this one will go somewhere. I met this one online. We've talked about work, money, the lack of good work and money, life, school, and parents. You name it and something about it has passed through in conversation. I was really feelin it. He invited me over for cartoons and chicken wings! I accepted, why?
It was now 2:15 and I am going to NY to do nothing productive! This brotha lived in the Bronx! Oh hell no! I already had left so I was on my way into a late night journey! To the freakin Bronx at the least! This is going to be a tale I thought. I can't even navigate NY like that!
Okay so I started the post at this point. I'm at 42nd St. waiting on the 2. I was waiting in the wrong spot for 20 mins! Why can't all the damn trains stop in the same damn spot? Why do the signs have a gazillion different numbers and letters without clear directions? I could have been almost there by now! But noooooo whoever decided to make up the signage for the NY MTA should be shot twice, with a shotgun!
There are these two girls next to me who are eating McDonalds and it smells real good! Why of all times would I think about food while waiting for a train that's not coming! I just wanna go home... I am over typing and not moving from stop to stop!
Ok, so I finally got on the train and I am on my way... Tell me why I get reception at like every other stop while I am sitting on the freakin train! This has got to be the first time that T-Mobile has amazed me! The very first time! Seriously! That’s really beside the point; I just want my damn chicken so this hunk of metal betta push on just a lil bit faster... GRRRrrr
*My phone better not die, I'm gonna be pissed!*
So my phone died and luckily I wrote instructions on a piece of paper so I knew where the heck I was going! It’s now the ride home and I am typing this to keep my mind occupied... Let’s get back to where I left off...
There was a woman that got on at 180th on the 2 line that started yapping off at the mouth and asking for money! She gave a story about how she needed money. She fell on the floor and then started singing. Then people started yelling at her and then she condemned us all to hell! Why? Because we didn't give her money? I just wanted to grab her by her damned neck and strangle the hell out of her, Homer Simpson style!
So, my stop comes and I am just so thrilled! I get off of the train started walking towards his house. I knocked softly on the door. I didn't wanna ring the door bell and wake anybody up. He answered soon enough! I was looking for two things, chicken and a bathroom! I got both! I was satisfied!
I noticed that he was cool great person, down to earth and could make some chicken! Finally good chicken that’s not store bought! Lol moving on, he invites me into his bedroom and I am noticing how nice his eyes are, and other things you can't help but notice through basketball shorts! ;-) I was falling for him. I needed to stop. I just wanted to be his friend! I need friends! I popped my head and refocused my mind. We continue conversation and he tells me that he likes me. I said hmmm okay. "You cool too", I replied! He told me that I’m attractive, getting my things together, I'm about something, zest and zeal and I go to church! He likes church and church boys! Then here's the T! He asked what a dude like him needs to do to be with a man like me! "I don't wanna move things too quickly, I know you're still dealing with feelings from your EX but we can work through that together"
I don't wanna get into another relationship so soon. I explained that to him. He said "Well I will be here for you if you decide to change your mind!" We laid down and went to sleep.
Shortly after, I wake up and roll over he rolls over and asks me if he could hold me. I said sure. My hopes of a friendship had gone out the window. Now, it’s a benefits friendship with prospects for a relationship. I had high hopes for this one...
He makes himself real comfortable around me. I'm turned on! He eventually accidentally bumps against my now brick hard dick. Following that was an inquisitive search and feel! There it goes. I am not one for too many details but the night ended nicely. I left the in a couple of hours later and now am on the way home.
I'm having many adventures it seems like, but this one was good. I kinda wanna go back! I think I'll drive next time...
Present Time Update! As Peter Griffin says, "You know what grinds my gears?" These guys out there that swear on everything that they are trying to get to know you and promise you he world. Then after they get what they want, something so precious, or maybe not so precious to others (LOL), they drop you like a bad habit! I can't take it!
After what I believed was a great meet-up, I never was called back! I was ditched! I just got in contact with him last week. Two months? I asked what was good and was everything ok. He said all was well. I asked why he fell outta contact. He said that he got busy. I thought to myself, that's understandable. Finally I asked if I would ever see him again. He said maybe. At that very moment i deleted his number and made the decision to drop him like he dropped me.
I've always seen myself as conservative, but it wouldn't hurt to be a lil more conservative. At the end of that, I just felt used and cheap! It's all good though. People always say don't give up the goods on the first date/meet. I think I'll try to go forward with that concept! (notice I didn't sign stamp and approve that statement! I said try!)
We have been talking for about two weeks now and it has been nothing but conversation! I was surprised finally! Maybe this one will go somewhere. I met this one online. We've talked about work, money, the lack of good work and money, life, school, and parents. You name it and something about it has passed through in conversation. I was really feelin it. He invited me over for cartoons and chicken wings! I accepted, why?
It was now 2:15 and I am going to NY to do nothing productive! This brotha lived in the Bronx! Oh hell no! I already had left so I was on my way into a late night journey! To the freakin Bronx at the least! This is going to be a tale I thought. I can't even navigate NY like that!
Okay so I started the post at this point. I'm at 42nd St. waiting on the 2. I was waiting in the wrong spot for 20 mins! Why can't all the damn trains stop in the same damn spot? Why do the signs have a gazillion different numbers and letters without clear directions? I could have been almost there by now! But noooooo whoever decided to make up the signage for the NY MTA should be shot twice, with a shotgun!
There are these two girls next to me who are eating McDonalds and it smells real good! Why of all times would I think about food while waiting for a train that's not coming! I just wanna go home... I am over typing and not moving from stop to stop!
Ok, so I finally got on the train and I am on my way... Tell me why I get reception at like every other stop while I am sitting on the freakin train! This has got to be the first time that T-Mobile has amazed me! The very first time! Seriously! That’s really beside the point; I just want my damn chicken so this hunk of metal betta push on just a lil bit faster... GRRRrrr
*My phone better not die, I'm gonna be pissed!*
So my phone died and luckily I wrote instructions on a piece of paper so I knew where the heck I was going! It’s now the ride home and I am typing this to keep my mind occupied... Let’s get back to where I left off...
There was a woman that got on at 180th on the 2 line that started yapping off at the mouth and asking for money! She gave a story about how she needed money. She fell on the floor and then started singing. Then people started yelling at her and then she condemned us all to hell! Why? Because we didn't give her money? I just wanted to grab her by her damned neck and strangle the hell out of her, Homer Simpson style!
So, my stop comes and I am just so thrilled! I get off of the train started walking towards his house. I knocked softly on the door. I didn't wanna ring the door bell and wake anybody up. He answered soon enough! I was looking for two things, chicken and a bathroom! I got both! I was satisfied!
I noticed that he was cool great person, down to earth and could make some chicken! Finally good chicken that’s not store bought! Lol moving on, he invites me into his bedroom and I am noticing how nice his eyes are, and other things you can't help but notice through basketball shorts! ;-) I was falling for him. I needed to stop. I just wanted to be his friend! I need friends! I popped my head and refocused my mind. We continue conversation and he tells me that he likes me. I said hmmm okay. "You cool too", I replied! He told me that I’m attractive, getting my things together, I'm about something, zest and zeal and I go to church! He likes church and church boys! Then here's the T! He asked what a dude like him needs to do to be with a man like me! "I don't wanna move things too quickly, I know you're still dealing with feelings from your EX but we can work through that together"
I don't wanna get into another relationship so soon. I explained that to him. He said "Well I will be here for you if you decide to change your mind!" We laid down and went to sleep.
Shortly after, I wake up and roll over he rolls over and asks me if he could hold me. I said sure. My hopes of a friendship had gone out the window. Now, it’s a benefits friendship with prospects for a relationship. I had high hopes for this one...
He makes himself real comfortable around me. I'm turned on! He eventually accidentally bumps against my now brick hard dick. Following that was an inquisitive search and feel! There it goes. I am not one for too many details but the night ended nicely. I left the in a couple of hours later and now am on the way home.
I'm having many adventures it seems like, but this one was good. I kinda wanna go back! I think I'll drive next time...
Present Time Update! As Peter Griffin says, "You know what grinds my gears?" These guys out there that swear on everything that they are trying to get to know you and promise you he world. Then after they get what they want, something so precious, or maybe not so precious to others (LOL), they drop you like a bad habit! I can't take it!
After what I believed was a great meet-up, I never was called back! I was ditched! I just got in contact with him last week. Two months? I asked what was good and was everything ok. He said all was well. I asked why he fell outta contact. He said that he got busy. I thought to myself, that's understandable. Finally I asked if I would ever see him again. He said maybe. At that very moment i deleted his number and made the decision to drop him like he dropped me.
I've always seen myself as conservative, but it wouldn't hurt to be a lil more conservative. At the end of that, I just felt used and cheap! It's all good though. People always say don't give up the goods on the first date/meet. I think I'll try to go forward with that concept! (notice I didn't sign stamp and approve that statement! I said try!)
15 thoughts:
just when I thought this was a post about someone positive he had to go and be the typical GAY male...DAMN!!!:(
Yeah I was getting happy for you only to be disappointed by the present day update that hits so close to home. I feel You bro.
Damn...I feel you on this one Fuzzy. But imagine if the treatment lasted for months...you did the right thing.
Well, as I read the title I thought, Booty call, but I gave you the benifit of a doubt. I will never judge you for the flesh being weak, or in this case "hard". The need for human contact is a very powerful thing. I'm not surprised that the brother wanted to bust a nutt and go. At least you got a nutt out of it, I'm assuming...move on.
Oooooh chicken and trade at 3 in the morning was a mistake. You know fried chicken is the black man's afrodisiac?
Hold on...just to be clear...you took the train from Jersey to BX at 2am because a guy you met online offered you chicken and cartoons. Then, knowing that you just wanted his friendship, you laid in bed with him and let him put his arms around you when he asked to.
Sweetie, that's a hookup if I've ever read about one.
I'm not understanding how you can get mad at him for treating you like a hookup when that's essentially what it was. As for him not calling you back, how many guys have you called back after sleeping with him the first time you tried to?
I'm just sayin'...
He doesn't live alone and its kinda early to just be yappin it up in the living room! We went to his bedroom where there was a door to enclose the noise of the tv. There was only a bed to lay/sit on.
While I did want his friendship, i was still attracted to him. I'm still working on my self-control. I don't know how many of you would do nothing after laying in the bed with a bangin dude and then feeling a hard dick jabbing you! Roll away? Hmmm yea, lemme know when that happens!
To me a hookup would be classified as initializing convo then meeting up for a fuck both sharing a consensus that that is what it is. We were talking on a friendship level. There was very little sex talk other than was I a top or bottom. 30 secs if that. In my mind it was just a meet and chill that turned into more. I left there with the idea of going back! Soon at that!
I'm upset at him for not communicating what he really wanted. Yes i do have the right to be upset because when you're honest and up front what happened wouldn't of happened.
So far as being sexual with people and not calling back, I have numbers of everyone and I do call. If only to say hello! I'm not one to hit and split like all these other deadbeat gays! I don't get wit you only to delete ya number the following day! Did I mention that I'm different? If it sounds like I have a chip as you read this, guess what? I do!
Yup - save the goods...don't give them up - lol
LOL @ Mr. Jones' comment...LMFAO.
Fuzzy, step back and be objective here.
What gay man invites another gay man to his house at 3am to watch cartoons and eat chicken? That's not a quick trip. That's at the very least train to Exchange Place, the PATH from Exchange to WTC or Penn Station, the subway from WTC or Penn alllllllll the way uptown and across the East River to the Bronx...for chicken and cartoons...at 3am.
I'm not mad at you for fucking him. I would hope you'd get some dick after taking that trip at that hour. I just want you to understand that it's not all that ridiculous/unexpected that he didn't call you back after fucking you on the first try.
I've never invited someone I was interested in befriending to my apartment in another state at 3am. That's a sex or sleeping hour.
To be clear, the last train from Central NJ to NY Penn Station is at 1:41 am arriving in NYC at 2:18 am... Just a point of reference for those of you in Conchohocken, PA...
~Damnit!
Dag man, well f him lol.... but naw.. u live an learn buddy... so don't sweat it!
There are all kinds of brothas in this world. Some would have just had chicken and cartoons with you. Unfortunately, that was not this brothas plan from the beginning even though he may have seemed different. You can't control how others are going to act. You can only control you. Like One Man's Opinion said...at least you got a nut...and you better had! Or that would have really been a wasted trip.
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