Tell me have you ever been in a situation where the best thing that you could do was to just walk away? I been down the road of phony associates. I just never thought I would ever see a message like this come from one of ma "friends".
"Yo fuzzy no disrespect tonight but u can't really speak to me tonight man, my dad here and he gone b grilln me about how I kno u etc my family already asked was u gay, I jus don't need the drama tonight, jus giving u a heads up man, no hard feelings"
What would you do if someone was just telling you a few days prior that he had much love for you and that you two were tight like glue and then he sends you some bullshit like this? I invited your gay ass to church wit me! I invited you into my safe house and didn't care how you looked. I didn't care how you would act. Because you were close to me I didn't care because we was boys. I doubt that you will read this... I can't even finish this post...
Just Keep Wondering...
Adendum: This "friend" is not a prospect nor a potential sex buddy or anything of the kind. We have been "friends" for more than 2 years...
7 thoughts:
Let it flow...then let him flow!
I'm starting to forget how to do code, this is my 3rd attempt at this.
Anyway, you're too young to remember Billie Holiday. I'm too young to remember Billie Holiday I've heard her sing this. I can't find her version right now, but do you think this applies to you?
The message he sent is more telling of who he is, than who you are. That said, the fact that you ask what you should do leads us to believe you care enough about his 'friendship' to address this with him. We're all in different stages of our development. Simply put...
1. Make clear that you accept his friendship "as is" and expect the same
2. You sould be trusted and respected to make prudent decisions with regard to interaction with your buddies - even when it means that you are a bit aloof to protect their closeted status.
3. The result of a repeat message of the same kind will result in an immediate severing of your association with him.
Be clear..keep emotions to a minimum and stick to your word.
Respect is earned. Rules are communicated.
Keep passin' the open windows...
my weed carrier once saw me at
the movies,him wit his wifey
me wit another...he walked right
passed me,later we ran into
each other in the bthroom,...he
apologized and said he didnt want
his "bird bitchin about his
association with me"...I was
lik cool and found another
weed carrier.....move on and
dont u know months later he
still on me about "why I act
like that"...silly fools ,tricks
are for kids. manchild
If he didn't have a problem with you yesterday, but has a problem with talking to you today, then chances are your friendship will always be in the gray. Let him go, move on.
I think Curious found the right song for you "I fall to easily." Take your time Fuzzy, get to know people better, stop taking these muthafuckas for face value.
You have a great deal to offer to a friendship or relationship, don't settle for just anything or anybody. Cocoa Rican gave you a few words of wisdom, take heed.
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