For a while now, I've been dating several men. I'm trying to maximize my chances of finding a great guy for the time frame given. When I was in middle school, one of my teachers called this "playing the field". So, since about February I have been looking to the masses and making myself marketable for dating. In the beginning, I would only find one guy that would take interest and he would be dismissed, or i'd be dismissed, before the next one would come on the scene. I am currently getting to know 2 guys at the same time.
Here's the point where most would disagree with "playing the field". How can one give them both the same amount of time they deserve? How can one split their feelings and emotions? One who is in touch with what they are looking for and is open and honest with each of them can manage being in talks with multiple persons simultaneously. I tried it and it worked out. I was able to see one that worked and one that wouldn't work. That's all I'm going to say concerning the situation. I've been known to speak too soon with broadcasting my potentials. lol
I'm hoping to come off the field really soon. I'm getting older and I can't keep up with the youngins like I used to! I give them good sport, but now I have a good white flag to throw in the game. So, I'll pour a drink and cheer to the day when I can take a bench seat with a fellow player and enjoy the scenery!
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play the field sir!
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