I met a guy: handsome, strong mind and a determined spirit. We met on one of the websites. People always say that you can't find love on a sex site, because its a sex site. But I'm not paying all of those fees to be introduced to people with a sadity and pompous nature, just won't happen. So, back to the guy. He's probably 6' or 6'1", muscular built, brownskin, full beard, and shaved bald. The difference with this guy, from most others, is I had no clue what he looked like before I met him. He had no pics to show, nor that he was willing to take and share. I said to myself, you always meet these "good lookin" assholes, give this guy a chance. He said that he thought he was attractive and, "if that's not the case when we met that you can turn around and head the other way, no feelings hurt cause we both grown". I accepted the offer and he made good on his promise. We chilled and talked for nearly 3 hours that Saturday night before X's birthday party. Then was exchanging texts occasionally through the night. Sometime around 12 or 1am, we wished each other good nights and a good church service the next day. I texted him when I got out of service Sunday and he did the same 2 hours later and we made a movie date for later that evening. We went to see Tyler Perry's "I Can Do Bad All By Myself". Then after I drove him home and we talked inside of his apt for a few more hours. We tired ourselves and he invited me to bed. I accepted. Things got physical slowly and escalated into sexual moments. He asked me what I wanted to do to him, I lied saying that I wanted to jerk off; I hadn't yet told him about my positive nature yet. He asked me what was wrong and I replied with "everything's cool". He kissed me and was rubbing on me and asked me again what I really wanted to do to him, and asked me to be honest. I said I wanted to slide my dick in his ass. Without interrupting the flow of energy he asked why I didn't say it before and that's when I told him. We jerked off and fell asleep holding each other. Monday morning, I woke up and left. He needed to get to work and I needed to get home. I'm hoping this will have a follow up story...
Just Keep Wondering...
Just Keep Wondering...
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Interesting...Fuzzy wuzzy was a bear...What happened to your hair? LOL...that has hidden meaning. Hit me up to find out what! you know how to reach me...
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I hope so too.
But regardless, you did the right thing. There are some that would have engaged and not said a word. Whether that's right or wrong.... well that's a good blog post by itself. But am thankful for people like you who will disclose such information BEFORE taking it there.
So now begs the question how are you going to break the news to him Fuzzy?
I'm green with envy! How is it everybody seems to be able to hook-up with men they have met on-line in chat rooms etc? I get the creeps just responding to the ones that I meet on-line although I do not utilize the service that often instead I take my chances with the brothas I meet during class, work or in passing such as bus, shared taxi etc. Why can't I be the popular whore just once. LMAO!
It appears that you gots yourself a winner, first and foremost he is everything he quoted in his profile (rare), he has his own place, job and he's charming. I am so proud of you that you didn't stick your dick up his arse the first night instead you guys agreed to beat your dicks together. No rushing into things.
Boo Boo if this relationship is meant to be it will be, so enjoy and do things in your own time.
I met my noel on BGC 2 year next month so sex sites are worth something...I hope you get more of this story to tell...
I HOPE U DIE OF H.I.V YOU SELFISH, PATHETIC EXCUSE 4 A HUMAN BEING...NOW SUCK ON THAT BITCH!!!
lmao, so I'm trying to think do I want to stoop to the level that anonymous has stooped to, which is immature. lmao So I'm going to act like an adult and hold my peace! Especially since I know the one that made the comment. Like its not obvious...
THIS NIGGA BE TRIPPING ON DICKS LIKE THERE`S NO TOMORROW...WAT A FAGGOT!..I WANNA KNOCK A CUP UP HIS ASS...IT`S TOM BITCH.
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DO NOT EVEN TRY IT! I WOULD NEVER SAY THAT ABOUT ANYONE! AND GAYTE KEEPER WILL BACK ME UP..MY EMAIL IS SUBSCRIBED TO THIS POST AND WHEN I SAW THIS ANONYMOUS COMMENT..I IMMEDIATELY KNEW YOU WOULD THINK IT WAS ME AND I TOLD HIM THAT ON THE IM...AND AS SOON AS I GOT THIS EMAIL..I ALREADY KNEW YOU WOULD START!
ANYONE THAT KNOWS ME KNOWS I WOULD NEVER SAY THAT ABOUT YOU. IM THE ONE THAT ASKED YOU WHAT IT MEANT BECAUSE I DID NOT GET IT. I HAD ALREADY STOPPED FOLLOWING THE BLOG BUT MY EMAIL IS STILL SUBSCRIBED TO THIS POST. YOU WILL NOT TRY TO GET ME ON THIS! I WOULD NEVER EVER SAY THAT TO YOU!
lmao! Is this for real?
See this is why I don't let Anonymous people comment on my blog. People always got something to say, when hiding behind the Anonymous mask.
I have said some things on some blogs and post, somethings, that are not the nicest, but always do it under my Screen name. If you not bold enough to say it under your screen name or REAL blog, then get old school, and don't say anything at all!
Both of those Anonymous comments, sound personal...I'm sorry.
The first comment calling you selfish...hmmm The second comment, is claiming to be a white racist named Tom...the strange part about that is most racist white men, call blacks NiggER, and when a black person calls a fellow black person, they call them NiggA, like Anonymous 2 here has done. In fact that whole statement sounded like a black person..."This nigga be trippin on dick, like there is no tomorrow"...hmmm, yeah that doesn't exactly sound like an old racist white man, does it?
Fuzzy, I chatted to you about this yesterday, however after reading these comments, I see where you maybe coming from now!
In my opinion this sounds like some bitter people, who you have been acquatinted with, in your life. Perhaps an ex or two, I don't know. I seriously doubt this racist has been reading your blog, waiting for a chance to say something like this on it!
SMH...!
Is this what it boils down to, when someone decides to express himself?
I tell you we need to go ahead and invest the money to build the coon colony...so we can cut out all this coonary.
Fuzzy wuzzy, you cool wit me homie!
I'm going to say this last comment, then I'm over this post.
We never know what people have been through, or what their real experiences are. mostof us don't know the real blogger. We get a glimpse,into them, through their blog, but we don't know everything or every experince about them.
So when we ASSUME, such ignorant and stupid things, never more do you truly make an ASS of U and ME!
however we also have to take into consideration, that at the end of the day, it's a child, making these comments. Now some are mature at that age, but a lot especially boys of that age, don't have the sense God gave them yet.
Some people don't have anything to wake up in the morning for, but to hate on someone else.
So let's all just leave it at that.
What I will lastly say is this, if you don't l ike a blogger or like what they have to say, then guess what?...Don't read their blogs, and and you won't have to deal with what they have to say!
If I don't like a blogger, or what they have to say, I don't read or vist their blog.
I this pans out well, for you. He seems like a "catch"...just like you.
And, OMG @ you meeting him without seeing a PICTURE 1st!!!...We need to talk! LOL!
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Wow. It's sad when the comments spark more debate than the posts. Sorry that happened, Fuzzball.
Now... what I think comes from another place, being that I'm not... ya know. I went out with a girl for a month. Shared nothing sexually -- unless you count cuddling -- and I honestly didn't plan on it. Then, she told me. Seems she didn't want me getting too attached to someone I could not see myself with. I applauded her for telling me before we'd gone too far. I think you did the same with him.
But I couldn't tell from the story: Did you tell him that night? At all?
So this definately became a public internet debate. I'm HIV+ myself and all these negative comments are just an attestation of how ignorant people are. But where would smart people be without the feebleminded.
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