Its funny that I'm going to post this, knowing what kind of question it is!
So, a student comes up to me and said, "Mr. Fuzzy (Fuzzy standing for government last name of course!), I found your website"! I look. First a confused look, thinking about what website he could be talking about. He said, "don't act like you don't know what I'm talking about! The one where you're on there looking like (student proceeds to do the pose that is pictured at the top left-hand corner of my blog! I kept walking, thinking "this isn't over and this will resurface!"
My question is: WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN ONE OF YOUR STUDENTS (coworkers, bosses, church folk, friends, hell even the postman may be used as substitutions) FIND OUT ABOUT YOUR BLOG?
24 thoughts:
I'm sorry but I can't stop laughing. I can just imagine a student doing your pose.
For me it isn't as serious as it is for you. You have to worry about minors that know you directly and on a constant basis. My coworkers, well let's just say that their lives make mine look boring. Plus they are an older crowd. I believe my boss has even been to my blog. As far as they are concerned ,this is my private life.
oh shat...I hate the internet.
manchild
PS...also act like the child is
mistaken...
i personally dont discuss the different posts i tell everyone that any comments or questions should be directed to the comment section of the blog.
however generic questions about what it is about and the URL i do give out.
A lot of people that know me have access to my blog and I don't have much on there that they don't know about anyways so my situation is different than yours.
I'm just concerned that your student saw you, your underwear, and a part of your goodies! That should be uncomfortable.
Be confident that what you put on your blog you can share with the world.
That's why I'm open and out now - that double life shit was wearing me thin. Now if someone approaches me - who cares!
Good luck Mr. Fuzzy.
Awwwwkwwwaaard!!!
What I share on my blog is what people know about me offiine. I recently had to deal with my aunt commenting that I share too much personal info; my boyfriend agreed and he asked me to remove some stuff regardin his professional life. Okay, so that much I can understand (I try to keep identities private) however, I've never been one to hold back. I don't swear on my blog and keep sexual stuff to a minimum since my family and friends may read it.
The main point I'm making so long winded is that you should never apologize or feel ashamed for expressing yourself (except with dealing the kids) but otherwise keep on FUZZING on!!!
ask them to leave a comment...
My ass is literally on the floor...I'm laughing so hard, I can't hardly breathe...okay let me get myself together...I wish ya'll can see me...lmfao!!!
so thequestion is what do you do when one of your students, or co-workers, bosses, CHURCH folk, friends, and Julie, the postlady finds out about your blog? Hmmmmmm..... interesting?
Well I have a question for you Mr.Fuzzy...Did they find out about your blog before or after your last post about Complete Tops and your experience around that?
Or did they find out about your blog before or after your little photo exhibit, where you are showing your little happy trail down into nothing but some draws on your newly found sexual liberated ass?...lol...Ahh good times!!!!
I know you where probably shocked...looking like a fat kid with his hand caught in the cookie jar and did not think it was funny at the time...but I think it is hellava funny, I tell yah...I love yah Fuzz.
All I have to say in reference to this question is...why do you think my ass don't have a big pic of my ass on my blog..with some of the things I have said and will continue to say in the future in regards to my sex life!!!
You bet your sweet ass this is going to resurface....but you better act like Shaggy and be like, "It wasn't me!"
If someone knows me and they are friends or family, then there will be no explanation necessary. They will probably know me better than I do and accept it for what it is. If someone finds out that I don't know well, then again there is no explanation necessary.
Sure there may be stuff there that might make me feel momentarily embarrassed by but never ashamed of because that's the whole reason for having a blog. The ability to express your thoughts and your feelings and as per Ladynay, "your goodies" without having to be persecuted for having them.
Plus if you are really that concerned, then just put up that objectionable material warning up front or make the blog invitation only. But if you do, I still want to see the 2nd part of those pictures you took.
well i think this is all surreal! i dont put my government name out in any posts, can't google that. you can fine it by my email account which i only give to those i dont mind having it or finding the blog. I am thinking maybe facebook? its on there but i think you have to accept someone as a friend before they can see ya profile right? idk...
hell between the student i saw at the club, the guys (male students) that flirt wit me that cause me to remain seated at the desk while trying to ignore it. to the boy that just openly came out to me, im like what the hell! i asked that one why he chose me. the response was, he thinks im so cute and he thought that i was real nice and manored and i wouldnt embarrass him if i wasnt cool wit it.
these lil buggers are trying me this year! i mean for real for real!
the photo shoot actually has 6 more sets. i have 3 in my email and another 3 i may have lost... idk yet. the pc crashed and the pics may or may not of been backed up...
Who can see your profile on facebook and what information friends or non friends can see depends on the security settings you have set. The deffault security settings are very loose, and allow anyone in your network to view you information. You might want to check what you have set and enhance your security settings.
if you aint out like Darius T., then dont put your face on it. otherwise, whatever you get goes with the territory. and dont get made when your pic is printed and distributed. the heat of the kitchen is of our own creation.
I think Unc DTW is rgiht...be confident and pay that lil child dust. I decided when I started to post pictures and put my link on facebook that if anyone approached me about it, I'd have to be willing to either pay them or defend myself...that's a conniving child too. I'd read him/her for filth...luv!!!
JB
Lord have mercy,
I'm picturing the student mimicing your pose. I hope that this student is atleast in high school, cause it would be scary if they are in elementary. LMAO!
Fuzzy, this could be a good thing, Maybe your students are exposing you this way as a way of engaging them on a new level both for yourself and them....just think as a teacher you are already a positive black male figure, and now you can add gay...they may be going through some issues that you could help.
Yikes! So, this kid has already seen you scantily clad and the upper portion of the shaft of your penis. Not a good look in a professional environment.
Darius is right. Be ready to deal with whatever becomes of what you let the world know about you.
deny; Everyone is entitled to another twin or two including YOU. Say it isn't you and be over it, except, *cough, *ahem, you kinda let it all out and wrote about it...Remember you don't owe anyone any thing except to the man you are and the man that brought you here.. Denile a funky ass river EVERYBODY, including u, gets to swim in.
could this new fan be a stalker, a new blogger, or just a run of the mill new hater, one wonders AND is he or she searching for some deeper answers within themself...I'll stay tuned...Frederick Smith's book Right Side of the Wrong Bed touched this same, well sort of subject, worth the read (if you havent already done so). Aint life rich?
better yet, what do you do when said student comes back and finds you talking about him? Run, but not too fast, cuz them Dereon Jeans might bust!
I have went through fb and have blocked anyone that i work with... i also go back every few months to make sure that i have an mew employees.... I like your blog, but I would have to shut it down... as a sub teacher... these days you have a lot more at risk... so you really want the kids at the school you teach at sharing your pics at the lunch table.... (but it is funny.... LOL He didn't do the pose did he?)
you see, i thought from friends talking about facebook, it was relatively secure from the jump! not so I see... but its all good! i fixed that yesterday... now since i havent been back to work, ive found out that he lives in my apartment complex! I cant take much more of this! lol
im confident that he will either a leave it be, or 2 start broadcasting. if he starts broadcasting i have a plan for that. we'll see how this plays out! I might decide to pop into his class today just for the hell of it!
I wouldn't mind or care if they found it. I have no secrets. So if they wanna read my blog then get into it LoL.
And that was funny, the student posing like u lol. ;)
Fuzzy said: now since i havent been back to work, ive found out that he lives in my apartment complex! I cant take much more of this! lol
Uh, can we say potential stalker???
He's probably been doing his research on you since the moment he laid eyes on you, let alone your manhood down below.
Tread lightly my friend.
Oh, to answer your question: I'd tell him to leave a comment. I know one coworker reads my blog (whether she admits it or not). I saw it on her computer monitor one day as I walked past her desk.
I agree with Mr. Jones. Its kinda weird. I say just be prepared for whatever happens It could go either way.
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