A Current Update!

All of my previous posts have been posted! I had to get the old outta the way to make room for the new and present! Lemme tell you how things seem to happen so quickly! I have been puttin some serious miles on my car within the last week or two. Reason? I met someone... he lives in Harlem. Its like a 60-70 mile round trip, hell maybe more! I don't mind the trip.

I initially had aspirations of entertaining the opposite sex. Having the fragile mind and self-esteem dealing with females, I put myself out there. I took a hit. I took a few hits. Yea, I was depressed and hurt. Of course I felt like I would never find a woman that would just do it for me, but instead of wallowing I kept moving. I realized that everyone isn't for me and I'm not for everyone!

So, what am I saying? Fuzzy just said he wanted to try dating women and already he's back to dudes? No that's not actually the scene. I find it easier to find a compatible man, than a compatible woman. I won't let my happiness slip away because of a closed mind! An opportunity has opened up for me to get to know someone really interesting and sexy. I'm going to take this chance and experience life. Being completely honest about everything from the door, we still grow close. From the time we first started talking, around the middle of October, until now, it has been cool convo after another!

His name is Chris. No code names, I'll get myself confused! He's about 5'9", brown skinned, 32" waist maybe 34", about 165lbs, short cut hair really attractive. He works as an administrator somewhere. He has his own apartment in Harlem. He drives, just doesn't have a car (I don't blame him, parking is a MOFO out there)! His best friend lives in Jersey City, so we'd have a chill spot there. Or if I wanted he could come here on occasion. He's self reliant and driven. He wouldn't mind chillin wit my friends if the opportunity came up. He said he wouldn't mind coming to church with me if I invited him. He is a catch!

Being that he is a catch, my arms aren't out lookin to catch him. I'm entering this thing with no expectations other than spending time with him. Were feelin each other so that's cool wit me for now. Shawn and I met with the intention of friendship and I'm happy to say that the friendship has lasted through it all! I will not push anything but friendship for right now. I'm seizing every day and living each moment, enjoying the time we spend together!

Stay tuned!