Sigh, so here I am. Sitting here with Shawn having a personality discussion. My personality has been spotlighted. I don't know what to do! do I stay do I go, do I change or do I remain steadfast! It has been brought to my attention I have a few "character flaws".
The kinda of person that I am is one who tried to make everyone comfortable and I will put forth 100%, or very close if not more than 100%, effort to make sure people like me. I will even take it a step further, if I to see that you have a problem with me, I'll find out what it is. Then, I'll try ti fix it make amens so fourth and on. Problem in this scenario. It seems as though my "character flaws" were rendered by a group! So I asked, "what were they?" I do not think i was ready to hear what was said! That I act caddy, shady and dismissive. I said, "HUH"! It reminded me of this clip:
The kinda of person that I am is one who tried to make everyone comfortable and I will put forth 100%, or very close if not more than 100%, effort to make sure people like me. I will even take it a step further, if I to see that you have a problem with me, I'll find out what it is. Then, I'll try ti fix it make amens so fourth and on. Problem in this scenario. It seems as though my "character flaws" were rendered by a group! So I asked, "what were they?" I do not think i was ready to hear what was said! That I act caddy, shady and dismissive. I said, "HUH"! It reminded me of this clip:
It caught me by left field that I was like wow! I really wanted to make an attempt to change despite the devastating blow. I do believe I was being denied the chance. It has me a lil low even though I am trying not to show it. Should I try to fix this, or should I break tradition and leave things things as they are? I understand that everyone won't like the charming fuzzy as I like to be known as but why can't I try to be liked by everyone?
7 thoughts:
you've always been cool 2 me and it didn't seem like u were trying...
i think you're a genuinely cool man who wants to make sure people always have a positive opinion of him
if you think you do extreme things like going far out of your way to make people happy then fix that
For the rest, your friends know u better than i do...
Soldier, you are a member of my friends so far as I am concerned!
umm.. i think i read a book once that said "Judge not lest Ye be Judged"....
i think it was a bestseller too..
so who are the fools who think u need a "personality intervention" >>>> ?
Fuz, First remember that you will never be liked by everyone even if you were 100% perfect. Do you feel what was said a true indication of how you are? If so, then is it something that YOU think ( not what anyone else think) you need to change? Then go from there. If not, then don't swat it. we all have our own vices and we all strive to be the very best we can. Continue to be the very best you can. Live life.
I wonder how people think of me....
Wassup Boo,
DON'T EVER CHANGE!!!! Your spirit and energy is encouraging to all those around you. If people cannot appreciate you and all the blessings that come along with you, then remove them from your life. GOD blessed you with a giving and loving spirit. It would be a slap in his face to doubt his gift and think about altering it because of what a mortal man thinks. To be honest, the person that made the comment is Caddy, Shady, and Dismissive!!! You, on the other hand are Caring, Strong, and Divine.
Have a blesssed day!
Tyson
I'm bias... you are beautiful just the way you are... but do know I will always be here to help you grow into a better you!
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