my past week, let me recap! I worked all week, suffered from allergies starting on thursday, missed a 4sum, went to a bbq and got some head (thanks baby)! :-D
its been kinda boring lately. i have been lacking energy also... could be this dreadfully draining weather! sigh... i need some excitement and i need some soon. I wanna go to a sex party with shawn to see what its like. there is this freak that used to come out all the time before i met shawn. but now its tryin to come out.
ok now i am filling in for the deli girl (backstabber) because she went on vacation. this is the woman that told my boss to let me stay out a whole week... i was so bitter towards her for 2 days. i was gonna get her back. then i was reminded "vengence is mine, saith the lord"!
this has turned into a 3 hour post lol but back to a previous thought after many distractions (boss leaving work on emergency and cash register breaking running out of lettuce and sandwich wraps) so i'm liking the idea of the 4sum but i don't wanna share shawn, he's mine lol ALL MINE! I'm not against being adventurous, so ya'll shoot me some ideas and then maybe i can share some results ;-)
11 years ago
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damn, in a few lines, u made a HUGE post my friend, at least it felt huge to me :
- allergies
- 4sum
-bbq
-head
-freak
-sex party
-vengeance
well, hello HOW U DOIN ??!?! lol
i really cant help u with 4sums, i've been in a 3sum but the 3rd person was really considered and treated as an object, he had no power of decision lol
That's the only way it could work for us !
Dont have any 4sums or 3sums. Oh gosh, just dont do it.
All I can say is "wow" :)
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I don't really consider myself a stuck up person or an old maid, but 3sums and above well in a relationship just seems wrong to me. Even though your mate is there, isn't it still cheating? Isn't it by its very nature cheating, whether your partner knows about it, engaged in the act or not? But then again, if it works for u 2, go for it and I'll watch...lol
Wow… I had a similar issue. An ex, who I absolutely melt for, thought he’d throw out a few ideas about multiple partner interactions. I thought we’d gotten to the point where I could handle it, but the reality is, in my heart he’s always exclusively mine. It’s one thing to think of him having sex with other folks in his hometown, but sharing him in the same interaction with someone else would probably start well and end in murder. That said, I’ve noticed that the two keys to having successful multiple-partner sex for me is:
1. All other partners involved must be folks that I either don’t have an emotional connection to OR our sex has often involved other people
2. The spark that ignited the multiple interaction revolves around me – that is, all partners were into getting it on with me and will tolerate each other to do so
Oh yeah... and my allergies have been f*cked up too... talk about an after thought! LOL
Wow this is interesting... I have been reading you and ShawnQT's blog for sometime, and wanted to help you out a little.
Well I have been in a foursome before with my mate. It was really more playful then anything. It was with another couple. We talked about it for months, and kinda set up boundries like weeks before it actually happened.
We could only suck, eat out, fuck, and kiss our own partners.
The anyone could lick & suck other parts of the body, but not the dick or ass. You could bump and grind, and jerk off the others.
It was important to us that we didn't spread anything, even though we all was tested. So condoms were a must.
Have fun, don't make it to serious. It only happened once, and we laugh about it now.
Hope that helps.
I read your boyfriends blog, he is very sexy if you don't mind me saying, I wouldn't want share him either, lol.
I don't think I could get into a 3sum involving my boyfriend. THAT"S MINE!!! Having sex with other people around...maybe.
hmmm very interesting and very good points were brought up. since this a relationship thing everything will be decided together, shawn and I. From my view and standpoint i decided against a 3 sum because of the focus factor. 1 extra person might, sorry will, create a pair excluding either the 3rd or Shawn and I. so a 4sum might eliminate that... everyone has attention. the only thing i can see right now that will prevent me from discussing it any further is me wanting to share! damn i'm selfish :-) lol
allergies getting better... seeing the dr soon for meds... yay for drugs hehe :-D
TILL THE NEXT POST... WONDER WHAT IT WILL BE ABOUT...
$sum??? LOL... I know I should not asked this. but here goes... Who are all in on the 4sum (minus u and shawn) and how did that idea come about? (curious kills that cat)LOL :-D
OMG, I forgot how .... interesting your blog is. LOL
I can only reiterate what some others have said about the 3/4 some.
1) You and Shawn MUST set boundaries on what is considered ok BEFORE getting involved. Go over every scenario and think about how you would feel in each. BE TRUTHFUL, OPEN AND HONEST with Shawn and he with you.
2) Decide if the other paries will be friends/associates or total strangers. Believe me, it makes a difference. Most people prefer strangers that know that they are ONLY there for sex and not to call one or the other trying to be anything more.
3) Express the set boundaries with the other party BEFORE the date.
4) And, I think one of the most important is that ALL parties (within the said arrangement) show EQUAL attention to each other. OMG if one gets more attention than the other, there is usually hell to pay afterwards.
I also think that it helps to remember that your relationship with Shawn is what you two make of it. Sometimes we get in our heads what society says that a relationship is supposed to be. Find out what works best for you and Shawn, fuck the establishment. And no, that isn't a challenge for you to try to fuck everyone with government position, I mean that metaphorically. LOL
I don't know fuzzy, this could backfire
yea shawn and I spoke about it two nights ago and we decided that it isn't something we're gonna do, for the current moment anyway. then we had sex... ohhhh it was good...
soo good
REAL GOOD
BUT IT HAS NEVER BEEN BAD! :-D
And yet gays ask for marriage rights....
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